The relationships we have with others can shape us as an individual. Keeping good company and nurturing healthy connections can lead to stable mental health. They act as a safety net during those rainy days and push you to become the best version of yourself.
You grow as a person when you surround yourself with genuine, trustworthy, and real people. They have your back, and at the same time, they let you know when you are going down the wrong path.
Every relationship needs some work. And there are different types of behaviors that could lead to unhealthy relationships. You need to follow specific rules to maintain or build a healthy relationship. Whether with your parents, siblings, friends, or romantic partners, a fulfilling bond is one where two people contribute to each other’s personal growth and happiness. Creating such connections involve a gradual process, and it is an investment that you should choose to make.
1. Respect the differences.
We might have similar hobbies and interests with our siblings, friends, and partners. We often bond over it. We might also spend time exploring these hobbies and interests together. But, one cannot ignore the fact that there will be differences of opinion, sooner or later.
We might initially feel unsettled as we have so much in common with this particular individual. We may start resembling them and expect them to reflect the same behavior and thoughts. We may not do well with changes in their behavior and interests.
However, in a relationship with mutual respect, we learn to respect our differences and different opinions. We avoid imposing our value system onto others and realize that we are all different people. We should keep our behavior in check. Our loved ones have a mind, and we should try to understand them.
2. Avoid overburdening of emotions.
We all have a go-to person. A person we know will be available to us at any time of the day or night – the agony aunt of your friend circle, your partner, or the cousin who is more like a sibling.Leggi tutto